
The
goal of the program is to help families break the patterns of violence
in relationships. When battering occurs in a relationship, it is
extremely detrimental to those family members living throughout
it and to the community at large. We provide assistance to:
Battered
Women who are living in a verbally and physically violent
world. She feels trapped by her fear, shame and guilt; trapped by
tradition, economics and her love for her family. Many women feel
they have no other option but to stay and try to survive.
Children
who are living in the violence. They suffer physically as well as
emotionally. The scars can remain throughout their entire lives.
Research shows that children raised in violence can perpetuate the
cycle of violence as adults.
- 24-hour
shelter phone hotline
- Shelter
and safety for women and children in immediate danger
- Crisis
counseling
- Women
in shelter make their own plans and decisions, but staff will
offer direction to the women regarding agencies throughout Lorain
County who can help them when seeking a job or housing, transportation
and childcare.
Shelter
Services
Lorain
County Safe Harbor/Genesis House exists to provide temporary safety,
shelter, food, aid and support to the victims of domestic violence
and their children who have reached the decision to leave the
violent situation.
When
a person calls for assistance or information, a telephone interview
is conducted; then if space is available, a trained shelter staff
person arranges to meet the victim away from both the home and
the shelter to explain the shelter and discuss what options are
available. If it is agreed that the coming to the shelter is the
best choice, arrangements can be made at that time.
While
shelter residents must make their own plans and decisions, an
extensive client advocacy program is available to makes sure they
have access to the information they need to move forward. Shelter
staff is always available to discuss her options.
Most
battering includes two or more of the following types of violence:
Physical
Abuse: Includes slapping, punching, kicking, choking,
grabbing, restraining, shoving, and the use of weapons.
Sexual
Abuse: Includes forcing someone to have sex against
their will or forcing a partner to participate in sexual acts
that the partner is not comfortable with doing.
Psychological
Abuse: Includes threatening to use physical violence,
name calling, continually putting down the other person's abilities
or worth.
Destruction
of Property: Includes throwing objects, putting holes
in walls, destroying property belonging to a partner or hurting
the family pet.
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